When I was growing up the puritanical, give-in order-to-receive ethic was driven into my psyche. You gave up your chair, put money in the hat, and doled out soup for the needy without thinking—it was simply what we do. Then we turn 50 and start doing our own inventory: How’s…
Olympic gold medalist Adam Kreek knows something about getting back up. Following his team’s (Canada’s men’s rowing eight) devastating fifth place finish at the 2004 Athens Olympics most of the team moved on. Understandably, going from race favorites on a winning streak to being out of the medals is a…
What are the biggest conflict when it comes to ambitious managers? Answer: too many interruptions and wanting to get work done. More specifically, managers want time to: coach staff, review progress, plan ahead, complete work, and just to think. Part of the blame goes to outdated ‘open door’ policies, but…
I sat down for the formal evening at a recent convention and noticed I was feeling slightly uncomfortable. It was a classic situation—I was in for a long evening of speeches and didn’t know the person sitting on either side of me. ‘What if we have nothing in common?’ I…
I’m about to leave the CAPS (Canadian Association of Professional Speakers) annual convention in Montreal and wondering if I held back. Every day, as I headed to the next session I would spot one or two lone soles, obviously with the convention, yet sitting on a couch by themselves. The…